My wife is renting a beach house with her boyfriend and planning to take our kids. Can I do anything?

Has anyone else faced this? We are not divorced and her boyfriend is not divorced and he is bringing his daughter with him.





So my kids and his kid will spend a week with these two adulterers. Any suggestions?My wife is renting a beach house with her boyfriend and planning to take our kids. Can I do anything?
You need a family law attorney. Pursue the divorce and in the meantime, see if the lawyer can get a restraining order to grant you temporary custody so that your children are not exposed to this. I would think you have a good argument, but you need a lawyer to pursue it.My wife is renting a beach house with her boyfriend and planning to take our kids. Can I do anything?
yeah get a beach house with your girl friend.
ask lawyer quick
yes...if it's a holiday... give your kids a break... it's not their faults..
Ok, you aren't divorced yet, but have you even started it? Have you filed anything? If not, there is nothing you can do short of up and taking off with the kids somewhere a day before she is supposed to leave.





If you have been to court you can speak to your attorney about an emergency injunction to force her to leave the kids behind, and to not have them around anyone of the opposite sex on overnights.
I commend you on wanting to protect your children from the current situation. You sound like a good dad with only the best intentions.





Sometimes we pay for our morals, high or low regardless. If you choose to rock the boat and refuse to allow the kids to go on the excursion then it may make things worse with the wife I'm sure. If you didn't decide to rock the boat and allow them to go, your children with be part of something you'd rather them not to be involved in. But, she has certainly done her own share of rocking the boat, and she doesn't seem to have you or your children in you/their best interest at heart.





I would go with my gut feeling on this, our society as a whole has grown away from listening to that little inner voice. Whatever happens in the near future, your children will see their mother and you for whom you are. You may be forced to allow your children to participate in things that is against your beliefs in the future, but whatever happens, remember they know what parent has their best interest at heart.





I witnessed neighbors with almost the exact same circumstance. The children are now grown, and they have nothing to do with in this case, the mother. Just remember it's not the circumstances in life that mold us, it's the way we navigate through them that makes us who we are. Best wishes for you, everything you do for your kids is worth it 10 times over. Please continue to be a wonderful, loving father.
are u seperated from her? just marriage by name only? if so, thats your problem! i cannot imagine you and her living under the same roof! so i presume your marrigae is over anyways,,, probably same with the other man. get a divorce, love your children, i dont think the 2 of them are going to be having wild sex near or in front of the children! you just have to learn to live w rejection from her! give your children good Fatherly Love,. goodluck
Can't you just not let them go? They are your children, too. I understand that you are not divorced so there is not anything legal in writing stating ';the rules'; but I have heard of several divorces including wording that would state that significant others may not spend the night when the children are visiting that parent. Truly a sad state of affairs...no pun intended.
I think you can take her to court over it (taking the kids), but you might have to pay a lot in lawyer fees. I agree with you that the situation is selfish and childish, considering the children involved. I'm sorry you're having this trouble and the kids have to go through it, too. Good luck, and get a lawyer.
you can join them, ha, ha ha, wouldn't that make it interesting
Get the divorce over sooner than later.
So your wife has a boyfriend who is still married...I think even animals don't share each others like this.
Get a lawyer and see what you can do but legally I am guessing you can't do much.





Current law is a secular beast with no heart and warmth.
It isn't within her legal limits to take your children anywhere without permission from you. When you are married, custody is shared, you can take legal action against this, making you look even better for a divorce.
The better question would be ';Why are you allowing your wife to have a boyfriend?';
Pack sun block.





Take notes for the custody hearing.





Not much else.
Unless you have sole custody of the children you can't do anything to force the issue. All you can do is speak to your wife and try to reason with her that you don't believe the environment is a good one for your kids.





But you better have a good argument. Otherwise you may just alienate your children and antagonize your wife.





P.S. Ease off of the ';adulterers'; thing. It just makes you look angry. No one likes angry people.
Unless there is a court order telling her she can't see him with the children there really is nothing you can do.





You should talk to your lawyer about this so it can possibly be part of the custody agreement.
Ummm... Youre kidding right? How bout grow a spine? Why dont you tell her she better get her sh*t and get out. If she wants him she can have him 24/7 and then he can put up with her sh*t. Or how about say yah thats cool why dont you guys ride together and save some gas? Then when he pulls up at your house you run outside and stick your foot up his @ss for messing with your woman and then in front of him while hes snivelling on the ground in a pool of his piss and blood tell her what a f##king c%26amp;nt she is. See maybe if you had a little bit more attitude like ';I dont care what you think youre going to do I have a set of balls and Im a man and this isnt going on in my house youre not taking my da#n kids anywhere beeyotch!'; she'd be respecting you and being your little sex kitten on weekends.
I am sorry there is nothing you can do except get a child protection order against her boyfriend if you are concerned that the children are in danger by him. Good luck and take care.
Basically, unless the boyfriend is a danger to the children (not morally) then no you cannot do anything. I had a similar situation with my ex-husband, who was a swinger. The only reason he could not have overnight visitation was because he would allow strangers into the house. If there is heavy drinking or drug use, you may be able to get an emergency order.
hmm...this is tricky. You can't do anything unless you act quickly and get a good attorney. Maybe contact CPS and tell them that this situation is not going to be good for the children and see of they can give you any advice.





Sorry this has happened to you, it must be difficult. But always remember that time heals all.
Get over it. She doesn't want to be with you anymore. Divorce her and if the other wife doesn't know about the relationship, tell her. Be sure to tell your soon-to-be-ex-wife to take good care of your children while she is gone. She shouldn't trust ANYONE with your little ones. Do a background check on the boyfriend, you never know he could be a child molester. Talk to your children about their ';private parts'; and that ';NOBODY'; is allowed to touch them!
Do you still live together? Do you have a separation agreement? Does your wife have custody? If not, why are the children with your wife and not with you? Is the divorce going forward? Are you going to ask for custody? If so, you may want to bring this incident up with the Court, although it probably won't mean much. Throwing the term ';adulterers'; around doesn't mean much, or help your cause.
Ok your not divorced but are you seperated...?


If you are seperated and so is he then why not meet the BF on good terms because chances are she is going to take them regardless. Why not make this civil instead of complicated.
if u are seperated tell her that you cannot allow ur kids to be around this. It will confuse them.


If you are not even seperated your a loser and should find your b*lls....
Go and take lots of pictures. It will look really good in court.





On the flip side...If your relationship is over and you are just waiting on the finalization then, what is the harm? If she has moved on, then be the better person and wish them well...for the sake of your kids.
Take your kids and stay strong;it's very dangerous;you don't know who he is.
Tell her to enjoy herself with him. Tell her that you'll stay at home and look after your kids. If she insists let her b. But on that day jus dont be there.
DIVORCE n dont let your children go
Go file for divorce on the grounds of adultery,


File for sole custody of your kids, because she is putting the kids in the middle of the adultery.


I'll bet you will win.